You cant break. . . When you're already broken., Im a casualty of love.:
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Summary: This was a goodbye letter/suicide note that this kid posted to say goodbye to his friends and parents and apologize for what he's about to do, things like this are just so sad that I don't even know what to say. I know people who have felt like this, I have a friend who walked in to find his father hanging from the doorway in his basement before he was 10 years old, I had another friend overdose 'accidently' after about his 4 try at doing as many drugs as he could buy for a week and trying to complete the suicide before it finally happened, and I have personally felt so far down that I didn't think i'd ever find my way back to the light....sometimes it really is a miracle when kids make it through but they are resilient and more then anything they are all worth what it takes to help them.
If you think someone might be in trouble offer to talk, or better yet offer to listen, sometimes all it takes is someone understanding to vent everything that's been building up....
This is the kind of thing that happens when a child is abused sexually, mentally, physically, bullied, pressured to succeed by adults or not having anyone to show affection or love so they have the feeling of worthlessness or they are just plain overwhelmed with no one to go to....these are all things that kids can go through that many do and end up happy healthy adults because of the support system they have whether it's a friend, parents, uncle, aunt, teacher, coach ect. None of these have to result in tradegy but all of them can and have, everyday kids are exposed to choices that will affect them the rest of their lives.
Things like should they sneak out to that party down the street, should they drink at the party, should they leave with that boy they like, should they say no because there isn't a condom available, these are all common choices that instead of happening your junior and senior year of high school are now happening everywhere by 12-13-14 years old, and i'm serious...if you think that your kid hasn't been exposed to some pretty adult stuff by that age then either your really really sheltering them or your home schooling them and they don't have any friends.
Rather then pretending these scenario's don't exist educate and explain life as you go. You kid is better off hearing about sex and being a little embarassed about it from you then watching a porn with his friends at a sleepover and then at the next party thinking that he just should expect girls that are alone with him to have sex. Most porns don't have actors wearing protection either, that something you want your 13 year figuring is the right way? Put it this way, is it going to be more uncomfortable for you to explain to your son about what's going on before he's sexually active or have your son explain to you what his plan is for that girl he doesn't really know that's having his baby in 8 more months he just found out?
'via Blog this'
Summary: This was a goodbye letter/suicide note that this kid posted to say goodbye to his friends and parents and apologize for what he's about to do, things like this are just so sad that I don't even know what to say. I know people who have felt like this, I have a friend who walked in to find his father hanging from the doorway in his basement before he was 10 years old, I had another friend overdose 'accidently' after about his 4 try at doing as many drugs as he could buy for a week and trying to complete the suicide before it finally happened, and I have personally felt so far down that I didn't think i'd ever find my way back to the light....sometimes it really is a miracle when kids make it through but they are resilient and more then anything they are all worth what it takes to help them.
If you think someone might be in trouble offer to talk, or better yet offer to listen, sometimes all it takes is someone understanding to vent everything that's been building up....
This is the kind of thing that happens when a child is abused sexually, mentally, physically, bullied, pressured to succeed by adults or not having anyone to show affection or love so they have the feeling of worthlessness or they are just plain overwhelmed with no one to go to....these are all things that kids can go through that many do and end up happy healthy adults because of the support system they have whether it's a friend, parents, uncle, aunt, teacher, coach ect. None of these have to result in tradegy but all of them can and have, everyday kids are exposed to choices that will affect them the rest of their lives.
Things like should they sneak out to that party down the street, should they drink at the party, should they leave with that boy they like, should they say no because there isn't a condom available, these are all common choices that instead of happening your junior and senior year of high school are now happening everywhere by 12-13-14 years old, and i'm serious...if you think that your kid hasn't been exposed to some pretty adult stuff by that age then either your really really sheltering them or your home schooling them and they don't have any friends.
Rather then pretending these scenario's don't exist educate and explain life as you go. You kid is better off hearing about sex and being a little embarassed about it from you then watching a porn with his friends at a sleepover and then at the next party thinking that he just should expect girls that are alone with him to have sex. Most porns don't have actors wearing protection either, that something you want your 13 year figuring is the right way? Put it this way, is it going to be more uncomfortable for you to explain to your son about what's going on before he's sexually active or have your son explain to you what his plan is for that girl he doesn't really know that's having his baby in 8 more months he just found out?
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